Dear Abby: I want a relationship with my daughter, but she is a powder keg

Dear Abby: I am raising a granddaughter. We went to visit her aunt and cousin and had a nice day until my granddaughter told her aunt she should let her 5-year-old pick out her own clothes. My daughter (the aunt) became enraged and told me I had to teach my granddaughter to respect adults. I told my daughter I didn’t think she should tell me how to raise this child. My daughter then began yelling and cursing and threw us out of her house. My granddaughter was distraught after being...